Demographics Schmemographics 

I will be first to tell you that it is absolutely amazing what happens and how your dream life takes shape when you make a commitment and show up for expert guidance and community support, cheering you on as you empower and elevate your relationship with yourself, your life, and the world around you. 

There’s no question that by staying engaged, powerful shifts inevitably happen. I’m talking about the kind of shifts that stop holding you back and stop keeping you from your dreams. 

AND – as great as all of this IS, I’ll also be first to tell you that it’s not for everyone. 

I absolutely want you to have that “oh, THERE I am!” feeling, and I want you to confidently CREATE from it. 

But it really doesn’t matter what I want.  🫥

In order for it to WORK for you, you have to also really want it for yourself. Because if you don’t, you won’t willingly look in the proverbial mirror and then lean in and challenge some ideas around your self-concept and beliefs you’ve adopted about what’s possible, true, or acceptable. 

For it to WORK for you, requires being willing to experiment with new ways of being, doing, and thinking that will inevitably make you uncomfortable.

Again, not for everyone. 

And if it’s not for you, or for you right now, that’s ok. 

In my 20 years as a coach, and having served clients ranging in age from 20-76, men and women, of various races, nationalities, people spanning 5 continents in a range of financial brackets, education levels, married, unmarried, parents, not parents, business owners, not business owners …  I have stopped trying to define my “typical clients” in terms of demographics. 

Labels and categories like education level, eye color, age, marital status, where you live, shop, etc… NONE of it has any bearing on whether this is for you. Nor does it lend any insight into the predictability of your results. 

What does?

Well, the answer lies in what’s on the INSIDE. 

It’s in what you yearn for, what dreams live in your heart and don’t go away. It’s in what you’re afraid of, what you believe, who you admire and want to be more like. And why. It’s in how honest you are willing to be about where you consistently get tripped up and tangled in the limits of your own knowledge and understanding.

And, last but certainly not least, it’s in whether or not you’re done struggling and trying to figure it all out by yourself. 

Only when that struggle TRULY gets old, will you show up for the journey and the process and embrace support for accelerated dream realization and self-actualization. 

Speaking frankly about my own journey, it for sure wasn’t the fact that I was living in a basement apartment, or that I was a college grad on a first name basis with collection agency reps that called me incessantly, or my having a therapist who admitted she was surprised I returned for another session, or the fact that my longest cohabitation relationship at the time was with my cat … these are not what made me a good prospect for dream realization. 

“Demographics” didn’t qualify me.

(They also didn’t disqualify me, but they, for sure, weren’t what made my success possible or predictable.)

What made me a contender was my relentlessness and willingness to stop repeating what wasn’t working. And my relentlessness and willingness to dream, despite my circumstances. And my unyielding REFUSAL to believe that my desires were seeded in my heart and head just to torture my soul. 

No.

I was determined that the dreams and desires in my heart were there to be followed – even though I didn’t have the first clue HOW to make them real and felt under-resourced in every possible way

And even though my mind, heart, and home (a.k.a. the Tara’tory) was a Wild West of horses I didn’t know how to ride. 

Nonetheless, I was determined. And driven by the spark of my desired FUTURE. 

I chose to believe that I was meant for something more, something bigger, something far more joyful, satisfying, and fulfilling. 

I chose to trust the wildly illogical thought that I was somehow here to help others, while also acknowledging that this meant I better get on with helping myself first. 

And I was willing to commit to the journey ahead, no matter how difficult. 

I was willing to learn, and be uncomfortable, and not know what I was doing, and show up anyway. Even when there was no trail, I entered the forest anyway. 

Ultimately, I decided that THIS was more appealing than staying in my uncomfortable-but-familiar-and-deeply-unsatisfying groundhog-day present. 

Learning how to operate differently is not for everyone. 

And if it’s not for you, that’s ok. 

Doing an honest self-assessment is not for everyone.

And if it’s not for you, that’s ok.

Willingly trying and failing is not for everyone.

And if it’s not for you, that’s ok.

Self-responsibility and owning your choices fully is not for everyone. 

And if it’s not for you, that’s ok.

Making conscious changes like saying “yes” where you usually say no, and “no” where you usually say yes, is not for everyone.

No judgment. 

I mean, hey, it certainly wasn’t always for me!

For many years, I wanted overnight success and was completely preoccupied with all of what was right in front of me. I wasn’t ready to accept responsibility for my circumstances and make changes accordingly. I wasn’t done looking for shortcuts and wishing someone would come save me. 

Truth is, I had to exhaust those options first before I would be ready for the kind of personal development and shifts that we’ll be exploring, uncovering, practicing, and implementing inside The Brule Breakers Club

Only if you’re ready for a compassionate, clear-eyed kick in the pants, is The Brule Breakers Club for you. Only if you’re ready for that, does it make sense for you to join us.

If you’re ready to spot and deconstruct any and all BS that is not serving you –  from the brules in your brain, to the systemic, societal, and familial brules we’ve all been steeped in by the mere fact of being born – then join us today

With minimal investment, you’ll have TONS of support (from not only me, but the other members of this awesome community) as you successfully break brules and shift into positive powerful productive new patterns. 

If this is what you’re ready for, step inside…where I am an open book, sharing things that have been helping others for decades in my private coaching, now available to YOU in The Brule Breakers Club. 

Love,