Personalized Brule Breaker Session

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Do you wish things were different – in your life, in your career, in your business, your relationships, your finances, your health, your day-to-day life – but struggle to actually make those desired changes STICK?

If despite how much you WANT it, days, weeks, months, even years pass and things in your life STILL aren’t where you want them to be… wanting a change, trying so hard for it, working for it, and still not getting it can be very frustrating.

When life always seems to get in the way of pursuing your dreams and meeting your goals – big and small –  sometimes it’s easier to throw your hands up and say “maybe I should just be more grateful” or “maybe this is just the way things are” … and, so, you continue doing things the way you’ve done them in the past, and nothing changes.

You suffer because, as it turns out, believing that this is “just the way it is” doesn’t ACTUALLY bring you peace!

Weird, huh? 😉

Believing that you have to stay at that job you hate ….  or telling yourself that the exhaustion you feel is normal and just part of being an adult … and that you can’t do what you REALLY want or pursue your true joy because that would be impractical or irresponsible… 

When none of this brings relief… what then?

What do you do when trying to squeeze yourself into a status quo box doesn’t work? What do you do when trying to squash your desire for your dreams to be front and center in your life, doesn’t work? What do you do when no amount of “who do you think you are?”-self-talk brings peace?

When everyone around you seems to have accepted that their dreams are collecting dust on a shelf where, until further notice, that’s where they will stay, until “someday” arrives and “perfect timing” magically appears on the calendar… what do you do then?

If you’re someone who just can’t get on board with the idea that self-actualization and regret-free living have to wait – out of sight, out of mind, so that you too can comfortably settle for “good enough”…

We need to chat.

While I didn’t know what to call it at the time, I eventually grew to understand that what fuels all these unhelpful narratives, and what perpetuates and all too often KEEPS people from believing in and pursuing their dreams and goals, is the painful result of a society steeped in “brules.” It took me a while, but I eventually discovered how bullshit rules (a.k.a. “BRULES”) and these so-called “facts of life” and “this is the way it is” beliefs were, simply put, bullshit limits rooted in bullshit rules.

I discovered how “brules” – social constructs and commonly held beliefs that are so baked-in to our cultural understanding and worldview that they generally go unnoticed and unquestioned – were ruling not only MY life, but the lives of ALL of us.  

And once I saw it, I couldn’t un-see it.

So I set out to break them. And it changed everything. I redesigned my whole life, blazed the trail of my own business, and even wrote books on the topic.

You don’t have to follow the countless brules that keep most people stuck in jobs, relationships, and places that suck the life out of them. Brules need not keep YOU from achieving your next big goal and the life you truly dream of.

I want to help.

I want you to see and realize that change is possible for you. That what you WANT is possible. It starts with being willing to stand for a different kind of life and learning to see your blind spots. From there, you can begin to take a new kind of action.