Brule Breakers Brunch is a beautiful space of good food, new friends, and support – for people who want to break the “brules” (bs rules) that hold them back from the life they desire.  

Also at this first-of-its-kind special event, inspired by my book, The Brules of Life, I will be presenting an interactive workshop on the applied psychology of brule-breaking and how to create the life you think you cannot have. 

Ticket includes:   Delicious meal with fun interesting people √ Signed copy of The Brules of Life: 15 Bullsh*t rules to break for a no-vacation-needed life √ Special ‘How to Create the Life you Think You Cannot Have’ Presentation + Q&A + Raffle 

* Seating is very limited for this intimate event, so don’t wait to reserve your spot. 
Saturday, Sept 23, 11am-1:45pm, Sea Dog Brewery, Exeter, NH, $75pp

My books, The Brules of Life and The Brules of Life Companion Workbook open the door to the life you’ve been longing for. Woven by a collection of candid stories, The Brules of Life helps you rethink conventions and unleash your truest self. Pair it with The Brules of Life Companion Workbook for life hacks and strategies to create a new kind of freedom. Order copies today!

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The Brule Breakers Club

the brule breakers Club is being reimagined and redesigned into an annual membership program.  Join now – Before updates and changes are made! claim lifetime membership and massive savings!


Why settle for checking the box on part of your dream life, when you can fast-track your unique-to-you no-vacation-needed life! Rethink conventions, stir your soul, fire up your motivation, gain crystal clarity, and realize a new kind of freedom  one “brule” (bullshit rule) at a time as a member of The Brule Breakers Club!

Tara Sage, Life Coach

I see you brule breaker.

You want a life that feels free, and fun. A life where you thrive – everyday, not just somedays. Where you’re no longer waiting to feel accomplished or fulfilled. Where you’re fully and unapologetically YOU. Living in a way that reflects this, where the truth of your whole, authentic, boundless self is ALIVE and free.

But – something is holding you back. Something hard to put your finger on, just out of reach and frustratingly elusive.

You don’t need to settle for your sort-of dream life. Part of you knows this already … which is why you feel that persistent itch, longing for it to be REAL.

You’re not wrong. It is possible.

In fact, everything you want is just a few shifts away.

Your dreams, your desires, your no-vacation-needed life … all just a few shifts away.

It’s not your fault if it feels hard. There’s nothing wrong with you. The reason it feels so elusive and frustrating is you have been socially programmed to believe status quo conventions and false constructs, also known as “brules.” Like a house built on sand, bullshit rules cause you to sink and settle. You are meant to RISE.

Whatever you think you are, you’re more than that.

Everything you want is just a few brule-breaking shifts away.


Once you become aware of a previous blind spot, when brules no longer hide in plain sight … you become willing to not only see things differently, you also start to show up and do things differently.

When a foundational shift in perception happens for you, your reality changes. Before you know it, what you previously believed to be impossible or unrealistic, suddenly isn’t.

But reality didn’t change. You did.

It all begins with just a few shifts – in perception, belief, behavior – and your old “imaginary” or “impossible” quickly becomes your new reality.

The Brule Breakers Club is your invitation to make those shifts – quickly, joyfully, and with an incredible community of support. We are going to shine a big brilliant light on the brules that are holding you back.

Because they’re hiding in plain sight.

You will quickly hone in and see what’s been hiding in the shadows. You’ll receive the compassionate clear-eyed kick in the pants you need to keep going so that you can finally have what you want out of life.

We all have our lone ranger tendencies, but this isn’t something to try to do by yourself.

Why? Because brule breaking can get confusing – fast. This socially accepted nonsense is baked in to every system, and every habit, and every everything. Assumed to be unquestionably true, they continue to go unnoticed and unquestioned. 

When paired with everyday behavior patterns (read: habits), unchecked brules perpetuate themselves. They become embodied beliefs.

Distorted ideas can quickly become firmly established beliefs, despite however false the premise they are rooted in is. The result: autopilot decisions, actions that unconsciously undermine your joy, perpetuate misunderstandings, inhibit innovation, and lead to missed opportunities. No bueno.

But – once you join The Brule Breakers Club and start to see all the baked-in brules, you won’t be able to unsee them. And then, you can break free and make the small shifts that are going to make the biggest difference for you.

This is your next evolution.

This is what’s been holding you back.

It is time to go beyond the brules, break free of the bunk, and master the malarky.

Don’t give up on your dreams. Don’t settle.

It is time, for you, to LIVE your unique-to-you no-vacation-needed life.

“My inner brule breaker says YES!”

It can be really hard to let go of old habits, ways, ideas, and rise above this self-limiting paradigm. If only someone would give you a roadmap… 

Hi again, I’m Tara. Busting BS for breakthroughs is what I do.

Life Hacks from Life Coach Tara Sage

I help you stop waiting for “someday” and live your boundless, thriving, hell yes, no-vacation-needed life, now. Life coach since 2004, bestselling author of The Brules of Life: 15 Bullsh*t Rules to Break for a No-Vacation-Needed Life, digital nomad, professional speaker, made-up word lover, blanket hog … I’m gathering this revolutionary community together to rethink conventions and subvert the status quo, all while rewriting the rules on how to create a no-vacation-needed life and a better world.

Beyond the school of life, my official “cred” includes: a Masters degree in Holistic Leadership, the study of system change + a Bachelors in Psychology with a focus on behavior modification, + coach training certification + 20 years experience coaching individuals. I not only want to help, I know how to help. I’ve served thousands around the world to experience a new kind of freedom and I have personally broken every “brule” in my book. I’m on a mission to demystify the applied psychology of change and expand my impact into the millions. Will YOU be next?



Your no-vacation-needed blueprint is as unique to you as your fingerprint. In the last chapter of The Brules of Life, “You Need a Vacation,” I share The Wheel of Self-Actualization and the 4 zones that encompass it. In this module, you’ll receive step-by-step guidance to hone in on your unique-to-you version and vision for a No Vacation Needed Life by identifying the specific pieces that make up each of your 4 zones. With a clear picture of your very own no-vacation-needed blueprint, you can now roll on forward into its realization.


Which brules will make the biggest positive difference for you and your life? You will pinpoint the top brules that are holding you back, learn how to spot a brule, and how to clarify what is – and isn’t – a brule. You are on your way to living and creating from an empowered feedom-filled space!


Like any relationship, growth comes with increased understanding. Learn how to shift the dynamic and powerfully transform how you show up in relation to brules. The psychology of brule-breaking is the psychology of change. Experiment with new ideas and disruption of old unconscious patterns, all while creating positive change. Enter a new paradigm, expand into self-actualization and, achieve brule breaking mastery for a life you can’t wait to get up and out of bed for in the morning.


Trusting your dreams and desires is a process of learning to trust yourself. Doubting your dreams, doubting your instincts, and deferring to others are all symptoms of innate self-doubt. For your no-vacation-needed life to be realized, you’ll need to establish a new kind of relationship with yourself and build some new skills, all while acting from the Big Self that is nudging you forward in the direction of your potentials. Step fully into BEING the self-actualized, full-expression version of you! Rather than edit, filter, doubt, downplay, and question yourself… Get in flow, creating and doing what lights you up, with ease and passion. You will rewire your brain for bigness, implementing specific hacks and strategies to break brules once and for all! Participate in live calls and celebrate your progress within our extraordinary community of support.


Dream realization is really about self-actualization. Who are you without these brules?  Shifts in beliefs, updates to your environment, and recalibration of habits often create a ripple effect. When you no longer live by these brules, relationships – particularly the relationship with yourself – change. Adapting to and integrating this ripple effect is an ongoing part of allowing sustainable shifts to take hold in your life. With lifetime Brule Breakers Club membership, you won’t be doing it alone. In addition to pre-release chapters of my future books, you will receive ongoing support from me and the Brule Breakers Club community as you integrate brule breaking, fulfill your no-vacation-needed life, and build a permanent home in “Thrival” Mode. 

“Working with Tara made me realize that every dream is achievable if you have the right support. In our fast-paced multi-tasking lives, Tara is able to get to the heart of what’s most important to our happiness.”  ~ Terri Sinclair, sales trainer

The Brules of Life books are a must-have for any freedom seeker. Tara is inspiring, insightful and a true leader for anyone looking to break the shackles of conventional life and step out of their cage into their desire for freedom. In The Brules of Life, Tara takes you on a journey of exploration through must-know insights and concepts about breaking Brules. The Companion Workbook gets you taking REAL ACTION with refreshing, accessible, easy-to-follow steps and breakthrough exercises to make your dreams a reality. Get ready to be changed forever when you get into Tara’s Brule Breaking world. ” ~ Eloise Attenborough, Book Bubble Press

The world hungers for truth seekers and mavericks and Tara Sage’s book is about to liberate more of them! This book is no nonsense but tons of fun and the truth just bubbles within it and makes you want to stand up and be counted for the genius that you, and only you are. Bravo!” Tama Kieves, USA Today featured visionary career coach and bestselling author of Inspired & Unstoppable: Wildly Succeeding in Your Life’s Work and other books


⭐️ Game-changing, full access to the 5 module video trainings. This laser focused content goes deep into how to clarify your unique-to-you no-vacation-needed blueprint, pinpoint the brules that have been holding you back the most, apply specific hacks and strategies that will make the biggest difference in your life, and receive ongoing support as you re-think conventions, exponentially expand and improve the possibilities for your life, and build a permanent home in “Thrival” mode.

⭐️ Community support. Together we really are so much more. Be connected to fellow brule breakers eager to live full-out and design life on purpose. Kind, caring, smart, savvy dreamers and doers, like you, who enjoy being part of a creative process and are eager to learn from one another. It’s a space of support, fun, inspiration, exploration, and growth. 

⭐️ Part coaching program, part book club. Don’t just read about brule breaking, fully implement and apply powerful life hacks for more joy, freedom, satisfaction and fun. Receive the support you need, with discussion topics, assignments, and encouragement to create a brule-free, no-vacation-needed life that lights you up!

⭐️ The Brule Breakers Daily Wake up to brule breaking nuggets in your inbox. This special e-subscription will shine a light on brules that try to stay under the radar hoping you won’t notice or question them. When left unchecked, brules have a huge impact – on your life, your dreams, your thinking. But one bite-sized bit at a time, brule by brule, day by day, one tip, trick, and strategy at a time, you will debunk and disentangle them from every nook and cranny they infest. Break brules and rethink conventions for a new kind of freedom!

⭐️ Mastermind support. Feeling stuck? Have a question? Want some feedback? Need to brainstorm? In addition to our 24/7 private Facebook group where you can ask anything, anytime … I lead you through monthly real-time group mastermind calls. You will be amazed how powerful these hour-long telephone connection sessions are! Expand your thinking, break “brules”, and implement powerful life-hacks and strategies for new levels of life-enhancing joy and freedom.  

⭐️ Creative inspiration. There are more Brules books to come! If you are a writer, aspiring writer, or creative of any kind, learn from not only my process, but be inspired by other group members as well. Gain confidence and insight from what gets shared along the way about managing fear and doubt while embarking on big projects or new endeavors.  

⭐️ Merch. After The Brules of Life was released, readers asked for “brule breaker” hats, shirts, mugs, bags, etc. Optional, of course, but shop here if you want some fun gear. Onesies, aprons, dog bandanas, stickers…

⭐️ Two Special Bonus Downloads. Immediately upon joining The Brule Breakers Club, you’ll receive exclusive access to the Table of Contents outline topics for all three future books AND a fully edited chapter to be included in my next book, The Brules of Self-Care.

⭐️ A feedback loop. You’ll get a first look – and vote – on book cover designs. The creative process is full of surprises, a true collaboration. Who knows, I may invite you to submit a brule breaking story and, with your permission of course, perhaps it’ll find its way into a future book!

⭐️ Chapters for future books! Since I’m writing for you, I decided to write with you. You’ll be first to read and discuss pre-release chapters of future books! Rather than write in a vacuum or private silo, holed up, typing away, waiting to release a completed work … YOU are invited to go on the journey with me. You’ll get first-read of draft content, to include never before told stories, brule breaking tips, life hack assignments, light-hearted experiments, and no-BS wisdom! 

⭐️ LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP!  You get it ALL with one lifetime membership: video training modules, mastermind sessions, fresh new pre-release content for future books, assignments and encouragement, in a growing community of ongoing support. 


Here’s a sneak peek at my plans for future books, expanding the brule-breaking circle of influence:

📌  Book 1, The Brules of Life (released Oct 2021) starts with understanding brule breaking on a personal level. Paired with The Brules of Life Companion Workbook, you begin to experience the firsthand benefits of brule breaking in daily life.

📌  In the much-anticipated sequel, The Brules of Self-Care will help you deepen and integrate brule breaking mastery, debunking countless brules for sustained happiness and wellbeing. (Membership in The Brule Breakers Club gives you exclusive access to pre-release draft chapters for this and all future books.)

Brules of Life Book & Workbook

📌 Beyond the personal nature of brules, we explore larger levels of systems change. In business, as in life, opportunity takes many forms – often found where you’d least expect and where few think to look. The Brules of Business, a self-starter’s guide to business outside-the-box, will spotlight unconventional approaches for extraordinary success.

📌 Empowering impactful change requires systemic approaches to rethink outdated constructs and challenge the brules that have supported them. The Brules of Peace and Politics will be a dissent of bullshit rules for a better world. As interdependent beings in a world rife with racial and political divisiveness, this book will explore how to build understanding and be a meaningful part of the solution for a better, more peaceful, and just world. 

“I’ve edited a lot of self-help books, and this is the first one that doesn’t try to provide a one-size-fits-all solution for its readers. Instead, Tara’s book points out ways we may be following an unwritten script without realizing it, and opens the door for us to question those assumptions about how things “should” be done. There’s a lot of freedom and flexibility on the other side of that door – infinite ways to customize our “brule” breaking and discover unique individual paths to joy!” ~ Robin Samuel, Shadowcat Editing

“Tara’s ability to articulate nuance and teach subtle points for transformational leadership is out of this world.”  

~ Marcy Stahl, Mindset & Marketing Mentor

The Brule Breakers Club is UNDER CONSTRUCTION. Soon, it will be re-launched as an annual membership program ($1,000 per year). Join NOW for lifetime membership!

(reg. $1,000 per year)  

$1,000, once, for lifetime membership!

While writing my book in 2021, I had the idea to bring people together into a community that helps each other to fully implement the power of brule breaking while pursuing the goals and dreams that they’re after. And it got me thinking … what if I create a Brule Breakers Club? Currently under construction, join NOW to get this screamin’ Founding Member Lifetime Membership deal — a reward for getting in early. 

* Refund, Shipping & Privacy Policies: In purchasing this program, I understand I am committing to paying the chosen payment in full as this is an all-inclusive, immediate-access program in which I am enrolling. I understand there are no refunds if I choose to withdraw. I understand that Tara Sage, Inc is committed to privacy and will not sell, rent or give my name, address, or other personal information to anyone.

“I love Tara’s writing style. Every chapter is thought-provoking and sparks life changing ah-ha moments!”  ~ Colleen Millett

It was admiration at first words! That was years ago, and I’ve been following Tara on her adventures ever since. I enjoy her command of the written word, and her writing style makes me think she’s writing directly to me! I can’t wait to see, hear, or read what she’s doing next.”   

~ Melissa K. Grudin, retiree and active volunteer

“Tara brings so much to her groups. Her leadership style is compelling. I feel engaged and present throughout and always leave feeling like a switch has been turned on.”  

~ Claire Winston-Wade, wedding officiant

Members’ Feedback 

“I see this book as life changing!!”  

“Your words are a powerful reminder of what is within us all.”

“The perfect way to open the chapter. It’s attention grabbing and really makes the point about LIFE!”

“I love how you take all you know, are, and have learned and roll out a cohesive chapter of thought provoking ideas and for us all.” 

“I have a feeling you’re going to push me so I break out of my own chains.”  

“I love it!! I have so many thoughts. You’re an inspiration!!”  

“Bravo! I can absolutely see this being the first chapter.”  

“I can’t wait to jump in and find out how to unleash my spirit.”  

“An exciting journey with an amazing group.”  

“Tara’s stories help me remember when I forget.”  

“There’s an adventurous spirit inside me and screaming for me.”

“I L-O-V-E watching your videos, Tara.  It’s soul food.”

“Sounds great, Tara. Sign me up!”

YAY!  I can’t wait to welcome YOU to the Club!

Frequently Asked Questions

When does membership start?

As soon as you join! You’ll receive an email with the link to join our private group forum and access to Members Only content. Introduce yourself to the group and dive in to thought-provoking questions and content that’ll help get you thinking outside the box, pronto. 

Do I need to be a writer myself or have any special training or background to join?

Nope. If you love creative collaboration, personal development, and you sense that status quo ways are stunting your growth or your joy – even in the slightest – this club is for you. Together, we’ll help you thrive. 

What is your refund and privacy policy?

This is an all-inclusive program and there are no refunds if you choose to withdraw. Tara Sage, Inc. is committed to privacy and will not sell, rent or give your name, address, or other personal information to anyone. 

Are your books included in my membership?

The Brules of Life and The Brules of Life Companion Workbook are not included but are available worldwide for purchase on Amazon, in Kindle and in print. 

What if I want more personalized support, beyond what’s provided within the group?

Private support is available. To explore what will best serve you, please just reach out directly so we can customize based on your needs. 

“I’m in, Tara!”

Awesome. I am honored to have this opportunity to serve and co-create with you. I honestly can’t wait.  Join now and be on the lookout for bonuses and details.   

To the journey ahead!

Big love,

Tara Sage

PS – The process of creating this Club, is the most IN FLOW I have ever been in my decades of doing this work and I think you deserve to know: that’s the vibe you’ll be joining forces with when you decide to register. Want to be IN FLOW doing what lights YOU up? When Brule Breakers flock together, that’s exactly the experience that awaits you. JOIN TODAY!