What stopped you this year?

What stopped you this year?

Naysayers have an unfortunate amount of influence over whether you live your dreams, for this one reason: Your own self-doubt.

How often do we do something, not do something, or change how we do something because of what people say? Or even what we THINK people will say?

Deferring to others is a symptom of innate self-doubt. And when the people you’re deferring to are naysayers or people who don’t want to see you make any changes, it can be the nail in the coffin for your dreams.

I know it may sound like I’m being overly dramatic. But unfortunately, in many cases, this is exactly what happens.

When people don’t receive approval or support from others about their dreams, it’s often at this very moment that their dreams die on the vine.

What can make naysayer navigation doubly hard is when it comes from the voices close to us.

This is why – if you want to not just dream, but LIVE those dreams – building self-trust and self-mastery is imperative.

Because when we fully trust OURSELVES and our own vision and desires, and when we trust ourselves to ACT and to BE, the words and opinions of naysayers, don’t stop us. We live our dreams.

It’s also why it’s so important to have a naysayer navigation plan so that the dreams in your heart don’t wither up like a raisin in the sun.

Look, if this stuff was easy everyone would do it!

The key is to align yourself with the right support while you grow in your ability to trust yourself. When you do this, you are strengthening the very foundation that your dreams and goals are built on: YOU.

While doubts and questions are normal and natural, most people stop right there.

But – this is 100% preventable. With the right support in your corner, this won’t happen because when doubts pop up, we bust through them right away. As we face each doubt and obstacle together, you’ll gain a growing sense of bravery, confidence, and self-trust. When old habits and default ways of thinking start sneaking their way back in and seem so real, together we will shine a light of TRUTH on those doubts and naysayer opinions and recognize and reconnect to what YOU want so you can step back into how you can create it.

It’s hard, sometimes even impossible, to do it alone.

Sticking with it, investing in support, and staying with the process are what is going to really set you apart .

Want to work with me? Apply now for my free Top Shelf Assessment Call.

Together, we’ll build that self-trust and self-mastery so that you can finally realize the life you are wanting.

Big love,

Tara Sage

 

Keys that unlock your dreams

Keys that unlock your dreams

Feel a bit like a bird in a cage ? Like your dreams and potential are cooped up?

Eager to spread your wings and fly free?

You’ve worked hard to get where you are in your life, career, relationships, family, home, finances, etc… but maybe some things just aren’t working or delivering the satisfaction and pride you thought they would and there’s a nagging sense that there’s got more to life than “this.”

You want to thrive.

You want your time to be your own.

You want full creative expression.

You want the freedom to do what you want, when you want.

You want to feel clear, confident, and capable of creating anything you want.

… BUT, as you consider making a change, your mind gets busy about predicting and wanting to plan for everything that could possibly go wrong.

As hopeful and determined as you are about creating the best and fastest path to what you want most, it’s a struggle to figure out what’s needed, how to get out of your own way, how to break the habits and patterns that aren’t helpful. And what tends to happen instead is, that cage becomes a great place for a much-needed nap!

Relate?

In Video #2 of my No-Vacation-Needed Blueprint training, I drop Two Keys for you to unlock the door and set yourself free so that you can take the first steps to own the extraordinary power and influence you have over your life.

Powerful stuff!

Want the keys that unlock the cage ?

Claim your seat today – just $197 for 6-weeks of support.

Let’s do this thing.

To success on your own terms,

 Tara Sage

 

I’ve Been Called A Lot of Things

In a recent client session, we coached through a Big Belief Obstacle (a BBO): that personal worthiness is tied to others opinion of you. This can be a tough one to navigate. But, oh … clearing the cobwebs on this one to reveal the freedom that lies on other side is sooo worth it.  Self-permission and the freedom to live your life and to be fully and truly yourself is an awesome and priceless reward.

I personally have been called a lot of things over the years.  Some hurt. In contrast, others were so generous and kind, I had a hard time fully receiving them without deflection.

Amidst the wide spectrum of things I’ve been called, here are a few that I don’t contest: digital entrepreneur, master coach, possibility queen, writer, author, speaker, salsera, life hack pro, blanket hog … 🙂

If you’ve been following my journey, you know that I live full-time in an Airstream with my guy and our dog, traveling and working from the road. We’re love this lifestyle. Definitely one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself.

I am deeply passionate about the work I do, wanting all beings to make kick-ass decisions for their life based, of course, on their own dreams and goals. This is my mission and personal calling.  Since 2004, I am constantly amping things up in terms of the support I provide, the content I offer, and the ways I share my work, through a combination of IRL and URL.  

I’m committed to touch as many lives as possible with what I know creates rapid transformation and has an enormous impact on the human experience.

As a reader and member of my virtual community, I want to check in with you …

Are YOU ready for kick-ass results and high-level support as you embark on the exciting, sometimes tricky, at times intimidating, but immensely gratifying process of creating YOUR dream life?

If so, it’s high-time you and I talk. Especially if you’ve been a curious observer for a while. 

If you and I have never connected, it’s time we do, with a free session. (My gift to you.) Simply go to www.SessionwithTara.com and pick a time on my calendar. Book it now so it’s in place for you. I love connecting with people from my community. (If you’re already a client, please consider sharing this with someone you think could benefit from this kind of support.)

Actions speak louder than words.

Behavior modification is my specialty, applying my Holistic Leadership MA, my Psychology BA, and extensive work experience. Truth be told, talking and thinking about doing something is one thing … but aligned action is what makes the real difference.

If you’re tired of “maybe someday” … put action and a proven process to work for you on behalf of YOUR dreams, resolutions, deepest desires, and highest goals.

Let’s talk. We  will explore the possibilities together and determine the best strategy forward for you. Claim your session here: www.SessionWithTara.com

Cheers!

To your success,

 

Tara Sage

Master Coach, Possibility Queen, Author, Speaker, Nomad, Salsera, Life Hack Pro, Location-independent business owner.