by Tara Sage | Aug 28, 2023 | Brules of Life, Coaching, Create Your Life!, Dream Acceleration, Dream Accelerator, Manifestation, Tara Sage Coaching
Brule is not just a sassy word to know, it’s also a word to understand!
On September 23rd, I’ll be sharing something I’ve never before shared publicly: a personal story about navigating a huge blind spot. Other than the exception of a few close friends, I never imagined I’d be telling this story. After some debate, I’ve decided to do it for one reason: it is the best way I know to demonstrate a teaching that has the power to change lives.
So share, I will. And – you’re invited to be in the room when I do.
Inspired by my book, The Brules of Life, I am hosting The Brule Breakers Brunch – a special in-person gathering for people who want to break the “brules” that hold them back from the life they desire.
In case you’re not familiar with the term, “brule” is sassy slang, for bullsh*t rules. 😜 BUT – it’s so much more than a sassy word!
Brules are psychological and behavioral blind spots that impede and prevent people from thriving. And they’re sneaky. They tend to hide in plain sight! (read: We ALL have them!)
Like, for example, “Be independent” is a brule. Independence is a lie. A delusion. A myth. An impossible goal given that the truth of our interdependence is inherent and unavoidable, with evidence of this fact everywhere! (See chapter 7 in The Brules of Life for more on this critical brule to break, especially if you’re someone who feels stubborn pride – as I did before I busted through this brule – about your so-called “independence.”)
The brules that tend to hold us back the most are the ones that SEEM true and therefore go unquestioned and remain a blind spot in your unconscious, impeding you from thriving.
Blind spots happen when “brules” become embodied beliefs.
Understanding the significance of what this word really means and really represents for YOU is critically important to everything you desire in life … because seeing a blind spot and breaking even ONE brule can change the trajectory of your entire life.
It did mine!
Brule is a sassy word to know AND understand!
What if … you are just one shift, one decision, one brule-busting breakthrough away from everything you want?
I will be presenting at a special first-of-its-kind event in Exeter, New Hampshire (1 hour from Boston, 2 hours from Providence, 30 minutes from Portsmouth Airport).
JOIN ME for this special in-person event!
In addition to good food, new friends, raffle prizes and presents, you will learn:
- the applied psychology of brule-breaking
- how to go beyond seeming “limits” to create the life you think you cannot have
- how to powerfully deconstruct any brule
- the top 3 brules to break and how breaking them can open the door to a new kind of freedom.
This is an intimate event – space is very limited.
If you can be there, great! Save your seat here. I can’t wait to see you!
If you can’t be there on September 23 but still want to learn more about brules … I’ve got something for you too: Grab my FREE Book of Brules bonus chapter,The Only Skill You Ever Need. Learn the skill that makes all the difference, especially if dreaming feels carefree in ways that you do not.
Every time I sit down to write to you, my goal is (1) to provide thoughtful ways for you to feel more free and get to know yourself better, (2) to inspire you to trust your dreams more than your fears/more than you did yesterday and (3) offer some ideas for how to develop the personal habits and actions that make those dreams REAL.
In this bonus chapter, I believe I have done all three.
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To success on your own terms,
by Tara Sage | Aug 7, 2023 | Coaching, Create Your Life!, Dream Acceleration, Dream Accelerator, Tara Sage Coaching
As you consider making a change, it’s normal for your mind to swing from predicting and wanting to plan for everything that could possibly go wrong, to wanting to focus on creating the best and fastest path to what you want most.
Your inner dialog may sound something like this:
If so …
First, big hug. I know it’s frustrating to be working so hard while feeling like you’re falling short of your potential, maybe wondering silently or out loud if this is all you will ever do, be, or have.
You’ve done amazing things for yourself, but I know you want more.
I imagine that, while you’ve thought about going for your bigger dreams, whatever they are, you also don’t want to lose what you’ve worked so hard to create – your relationships, your security, your reputation, even your family.
And, let’s be honest, it’s easy to get freaked out by the prospect of change. Also totally understandable, because it all feels so UNCERTAIN.
Maybe up to now, you’ve thought it best to put your dreams on the back burner, for a time. You’ve had your reasons, and I honor that.
BUT – I also know that while you don’t want to lose what you’ve worked hard for, there’s a desire for MORE – be it a desire for more freedom, to be more yourself, or simply that you’ve been waiting long enough to act on the dreams in your heart, dreams that don’t seem to go away!
In The Dream Acceleration Program, one proven step at a time, we massively accelerate the realization of your deepest dreams and goals. We build on what you’ve already created, all while becoming more fully yourself, so that you can have your biggest dreams, be your biggest self, AND create deeper relationships, increased confidence, free time to do what you want with – and more because of it!
If you see yourself in any of this, claim a session and let’s discuss it further.
by Tara Sage | Dec 7, 2017 | Create Your Life!, Dream Acceleration, Manifestation
In a recent client session, we coached through a Big Belief Obstacle (a BBO): that personal worthiness is tied to others opinion of you. This can be a tough one to navigate. But, oh … clearing the cobwebs on this one to reveal the freedom that lies on other side is sooo worth it. Self-permission and the freedom to live your life and to be fully and truly yourself is an awesome and priceless reward.
I personally have been called a lot of things over the years. Some hurt. In contrast, others were so generous and kind, I had a hard time fully receiving them without deflection.
Amidst the wide spectrum of things I’ve been called, here are a few that I don’t contest: digital entrepreneur, master coach, possibility queen, writer, author, speaker, salsera, life hack pro, blanket hog … 🙂
If you’ve been following my journey, you know that I live full-time in an Airstream with my guy and our dog, traveling and working from the road. We’re love this lifestyle. Definitely one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself.
I am deeply passionate about the work I do, wanting all beings to make kick-ass decisions for their life based, of course, on their own dreams and goals. This is my mission and personal calling. Since 2004, I am constantly amping things up in terms of the support I provide, the content I offer, and the ways I share my work, through a combination of IRL and URL.
I’m committed to touch as many lives as possible with what I know creates rapid transformation and has an enormous impact on the human experience.
As a reader and member of my virtual community, I want to check in with you …
Are YOU ready for kick-ass results and high-level support as you embark on the exciting, sometimes tricky, at times intimidating, but immensely gratifying process of creating YOUR dream life?
If so, it’s high-time you and I talk. Especially if you’ve been a curious observer for a while. 
If you and I have never connected, it’s time we do, with a free session. (My gift to you.) Simply go to www.SessionwithTara.com and pick a time on my calendar. Book it now so it’s in place for you. I love connecting with people from my community. (If you’re already a client, please consider sharing this with someone you think could benefit from this kind of support.)
Actions speak louder than words.
Behavior modification is my specialty, applying my Holistic Leadership MA, my Psychology BA, and extensive work experience. Truth be told, talking and thinking about doing something is one thing … but aligned action is what makes the real difference.
If you’re tired of “maybe someday” … put action and a proven process to work for you on behalf of YOUR dreams, resolutions, deepest desires, and highest goals.
Let’s talk. We will explore the possibilities together and determine the best strategy forward for you. Claim your session here: www.SessionWithTara.com
Cheers!
To your success,
Master Coach, Possibility Queen, Author, Speaker, Nomad, Salsera, Life Hack Pro, Location-independent business owner.
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