Naysayers have an unfortunate amount of influence over whether you live your dreams, for this one reason: Your own self-doubt.
How often do we do something, not do something, or change how we do something because of what people say? Or even what we THINK people will say?
Deferring to others is a symptom of innate self-doubt. And when the people you’re deferring to are naysayers or people who don’t want to see you make any changes, it can be the nail in the coffin for your dreams.
I know it may sound like I’m being overly dramatic. But unfortunately, in many cases, this is exactly what happens.
When people don’t receive approval or support from others about their dreams, it’s often at this very moment that their dreams die on the vine.
What can make naysayer navigation doubly hard is when it comes from the voices close to us.
This is why – if you want to not just dream, but LIVE those dreams – building self-trust and self-mastery is imperative.
Because when we fully trust OURSELVES and our own vision and desires, and when we trust ourselves to ACT and to BE, the words and opinions of naysayers, don’t stop us. We live our dreams.
It’s also why it’s so important to have a naysayer navigation plan so that the dreams in your heart don’t wither up like a raisin in the sun.
Look, if this stuff was easy everyone would do it!
The key is to align yourself with the right support while you grow in your ability to trust yourself. When you do this, you are strengthening the very foundation that your dreams and goals are built on: YOU.
While doubts and questions are normal and natural, most people stop right there.
But – this is 100% preventable. With the right support in your corner, this won’t happen because when doubts pop up, we bust through them right away. As we face each doubt and obstacle together, you’ll gain a growing sense of bravery, confidence, and self-trust. When old habits and default ways of thinking start sneaking their way back in and seem so real, together we will shine a light of TRUTH on those doubts and naysayer opinions and recognize and reconnect to what YOU want so you can step back into how you can create it.
It’s hard, sometimes even impossible, to do it alone.
Sticking with it, investing in support, and staying with the process are what is going to really set you apart .
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Together, we’ll build that self-trust and self-mastery so that you can finally realize the life you are wanting.